Any Average Joe might feel Average below the belt if their girlfriend can’t orgasm during sex. Women often need more of the right kind of clitoral stimulation than men do to reach orgasm so don’t worry! Your partner isn’t alone in that two-thirds of women need clitoral stimulation (and sometimes lots of it) to orgasm according to University College Cork. Luckily, hope isn’t lost — your girl just needs the right kinds of sex positions, like these five best sex positions to promote an orgasm!
- Open-Legged Position: It’s not exactly a secret how much effort it takes to try and have sex while you’re at work. Who really wants to put that kind of effort into their job? The folks who run your company want to increase productivity after all, but what if it could be done without sacrificing pleasure? A good way to get a little action is by practicing the open-legged sex position while you’re at work. I’m talking about taking some time out of your busy day–slipping away from your cubicle for a moment if necessary–and having fun with another person who has been feeling tense too. After all, there’s no better cure for workplace anxiety than a little “me” time!
- 90-Degree Doggy-Style: While Doggy style looks really great and feels pretty hot when we’re doing it, the problem is that it usually ends with us not orgasming. Instead of staying on all fours, try a 90-degree doggy position instead. Stand next to the bed and enter her while she’s lying across the mattress. Have her keep her legs spread, so your legs are between hers, while she can reach down to place a finger vibrator right onto her orgasming for optimum pleasure. A woman’s wrist can get caught underneath her own weight — using one hand to carry the vibration along with the other for support should help alleviate that issue that often comes up in this particular position.
- Limiting Beliefs: The 69 sex position has been around for quite some time. It was first described in an erotic French novel, which makes sense given that it requires a lot of flexibility! However the best way, both for his pleasure and hers is to have him on top of you rather than her. He should drape one leg over your thigh so that he can continue to stimulate himself while stimulating her clitoris with his tongue at the same time. This will allow her to just go with the flow and relax into her orgasming without having to worry about keeping up or doing too much herself.
- Lifted Missionary:The standard missionary position may be a favorite because of its intimacy, but it is also one of the most unproductive positions in the long-run. Luckily, there are ways to give this old favorite new life. Instead of having your lover lie flat on her stomach or with her legs slightly raised, place one or two pillows underneath her abdomen so that she is angled toward the ceiling. This way, when you enter her vagina with your penis you will be able to stimulate her G-spot which has nerve endings located inside the clitoris and travel up to an inch up into her uterus for stimulation – leading most women to orgasmic conclusion!
- The Lotus: This position sends you and your girl straight into the throes of ecstasy. If she has problems orgasming, this sex seated move is perfect for helping her reach climax on a good note. Sit upright and have her climb atop you. You’ll be able to see each other during sex and can make sure she’s doing well. This position is ideal for long love-making sessions as it won’t deplete you as much as some other sex positions may (and why shouldn’t the man get to relax, too!?) because it’s less active than all those others that require more thrusting.
- Cowgirl Position: Bouncing is the best way to make any woman orgasm but it’s difficult to keep up for long periods of time (regardless of how easy it looks) and such activity can make the man sore! Sexercise Stretch: Standing Up, Bent Over. Start by having your partner stand up straight with their back against a wall. They should then proceed to bend over and touch the floor. If you cannot reach the ground comfortably (without putting too much strain on your back or shoulders) then you’re not reaching far enough. Don’t forget that women like men who are flexible and strong – showing off those muscles will always impress her and help take her mind off other matters, desire being one of them! Vroom Vibration: We recommend dusting off your technical skills by taking apart a cheap dirt bike engine from an old kids’ toy so as to install a vibrating egg inside it for her pleasure!
- Sit to standing: This position often requires a lot of focus on the part of the person who’s receiving pleasure; therefore, it’s important to let her sit back and do all the hard work. For this one, stand near the edge of the bed, straddle her left leg at the knees, and insert your penis into her. Just lie back and pleasure yourself in this sex position while she focuses internally in order to experience orgasm. It’s definitely possible in this position to stimulate her clitoris so have fun! As you lie back with one leg in the air, your partner will be able to move at her own pace throughout each twist and turn which may come when moving during sex. She can even control whether or not she wants to orgasm because she enjoys being able to steer herself to completion when it suits her best!
- Reverse Cowgirl: As the name suggests, things are switched around for this position. It can be a bit confusing at first but with a little bit of practice, it becomes second nature. This is a good option for couples who worry about being watched or blocked from view during sex. It’s also a great position for oral sex on your part which allows your partner to control the pace and depth of her own pleasure.
Conclusion: This article is all about helping women who have difficulty reaching orgasm. It teaches 8 sex positions that are great for first-time orgasm. It also discusses the importance of foreplay for getting women in the mood, as well as how to communicate with your partner to make sex more enjoyable. This article is intended for any women who are having sexual difficulties. It also can be helpful for women who are interested in trying new things during sex.
